February 02, 2007
Slightly Passive Communication
So I have a space heater for my room because it gets really fucking cold in this house. Also I've got my vent blocked because there is dust in the system that drives my allergies haywire, so I'd rather not muck with that. Barron likes to keep the heat really low, and given the size of the house I can't blame her.
But I leave the space heater on at 60 degrees all the time. (Its a ceramic heater so there is a very reduced danger of fire. I'm really comfortable that no part of the thing gets hot enough to set anything else on fire.)
So, I've been coming home and I've noted that its been off. I don't remember turning it off but there is the slim, slim possibility that I'm turning it off while I'm sleeping. (I can forget things that I do in the groggy initial stages of waking up.)
But honestly I think Barron's turning it off... Thats my guess, but I also don't want to falsely accuse her given that our relationship is so poor. So I taped this note to the heater:To whoever keeps turning this thing off:
- You shouldn't be in my room, I don't go in yours, so I'd appreciate the same respect.
- If you have a problem with it you should talk to me or leave me a note. You shouldn't go behind my back.
- Please don't turn it off again. Talk to me first. Or if you want you could just pretend you didn't see this note and leave it on this time and into the future.. Your choice.
So yeah, is a bit passive, but it has the intended effect. It can't falsely accuse anyone, and it is communication.