{"id":2310,"date":"2004-04-02T18:21:35","date_gmt":"2004-04-03T02:21:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.inmff.net\/peidm2\/2004\/04\/02\/civil-limbo\/"},"modified":"2004-04-02T18:21:35","modified_gmt":"2004-04-03T02:21:35","slug":"civil-limbo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.inmff.net\/peidm\/2004\/04\/02\/civil-limbo\/","title":{"rendered":"Civil Limbo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been wandering around Barnes&#038;Noble.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m currently sitting in limbo about equidistant between the Gay and Lesbian section and the Religious Fiction section.  (Yes I realize the latter title is redundant, but I didn&#8217;t make it up)<\/p>\n<p>Between the dichotomy of these two sections and the scattering of political hack jobs masquerading as books, I&#8217;m disturbed by the divisiveness in today&#8217;s culture.<\/p>\n<p>There was a prevailing theme of unity after 2001. &#8220;Lets be united, lets be strong, stand together in solidarity.&#8221; (Why does this sound slightly like communism?)<\/p>\n<p>Instead its as if we got together and took a good look at our brothers from the north and from the south and ran, disturbed with what we saw.  We&#8217;ve taken to hacking at each other, attempting to win a silent battle.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately this is not the most disturbing thing I&#8217;ve seen recently.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>On the day George Bush stated he would support a constitutional amendment to enshrine the religious standard of marriage as being between one man and one woman, I got a telephone call from my older sister, Randi, upset and frustrated by his hateful stance.  I had simply labeled it as the words of a bigot and felt secure that history would run its course and GWB would look like the ignorant prick that he is.<\/p>\n<p>What is disturbing to me is I went to my Dad&#8217;s house the other day and he had &#8220;signed&#8221; pictures from GWB&#8217;s campaign.  (Its possible these were for donating to the RNC, as I&#8217;ven&#8217;t found his donation on GWB&#8217;s website.)<\/p>\n<p>My dad was the parent who took my coming out the best.  So I&#8217;m frustrated when my dad supports a man who has placed himself directly blocking the path of his son&#8217;s future happiness.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m in limbo as to what to do.  I want to scold my Dad for his position.  But, at the same time he has been kicked enough as is.<\/p>\n<p>So, walking around Barnes&#038;Noble seeing this war unfold around me has crystalized the limbic middle ground on which I&#8217;m standing on.<\/p>\n<p>My father is unexplainably with the south and I&#8217;m with the north.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t want to see this battle&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been wandering around Barnes&#038;Noble. I&#8217;m currently sitting in limbo about equidistant between the Gay and Lesbian section and the Religious Fiction section. (Yes I realize the latter title is redundant, but I didn&#8217;t make it up) Between the dichotomy of these two sections and the scattering of political hack jobs masquerading as books, I&#8217;m [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2310","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.inmff.net\/peidm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2310","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.inmff.net\/peidm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.inmff.net\/peidm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inmff.net\/peidm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inmff.net\/peidm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2310"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.inmff.net\/peidm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2310\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.inmff.net\/peidm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2310"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inmff.net\/peidm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2310"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.inmff.net\/peidm\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2310"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}